Weekend Vibe with Priceless Treasure - Virginity without extra oil is foolishness

A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because  they refused to give them sex. Some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes! no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it ,they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex.The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins nor because they lost their virginity, but they were foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL.

Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep marriage going.

If a man ask a lady for sex she says NO, the man can actually walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may simply walk away.

Before you think men are walking away because you are a virgin and not ready to offer sex? Some ladies who brag about virginity are some how timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners, some do not have much to offer intelligence wise.Some are not socially inclined, they are just dull and the best thing they have is their beautiful look, nice hips with backside, nice breast and nice lips.

So, when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else interesting about the lady. Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discuss marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they may be too naïve on bed and have nothing else to offer in matrimony.

However, guys don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, they can guess how good a lady will be at home and on bed base on her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by God’s leading. Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, it is not all about virginity, work to build up virtue as Woman in making.

Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add Extra oil and read 2Pet. 1:5-7.
Virginity or no virginity...,do you have any Extra oil to sustain a relationship or your marriage? Ponder on this my ladies!!!..
Do have a lovely week ahead.