Heart Matters with Wanny B - I "Love or Lust" You...

As a teen, intense sexual attraction can be so notorious to common sense and intuition of the most sensible people. You wonder Why seeing the person you are attracted to in you dream when you are not actually sleeping? On the street you tend to see the person everywhere you go like the motto of a yellow network! Lust is an altered state of consciousness programmed by the primal urge to satisfy sexual thirst. Being in love doesn’t exclude lust, in fact lust too can metamorphose to love? Real love, not based on ideas or projection, requires time to get to know each other. Here are some signs to watch for to differentiate pure lust from love.

SIGNS OF LUST
You’re totally focused on a person’s looks and body.
You’re interested in having sex, but not in having conversations.
You rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level, not discuss real feelings.
You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.
You are lovers, but not friends.

 SIGNS OF LOVE
You want to spend quality time together with sex not major priority.
You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours are passing.
You want to honestly listen to each other’s feelings, make each other smile and happy.
You motivate each others to be a better person.
You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.