Love is an attitude -Heart Matters with Omo oba adeosun

Love is not just the emotional feelings you have for someone; it goes beyond that. Love is a character, behaviour or attitude. A person can fall in love with you because of your good character even if you are not handsome or beautiful. Someone can love you because you know how to cook, pamper, or because you behave well and you make the person happy.

On the other hand, bad characters can make love to fade away no matter how beautiful or good looking you are. If you have some irritating and annoying characters, it can make your spouse to start disliking you and hence the love will start diminishing, especially if you are not taking to corrections.

Therefore, don't just be good in bed alone, don't just be romantic alone, don't just be beautiful and good looking alone. You should do things that make your spouse happy; exhibit all those good characters that make your spouse happy. For example buying of gifts, being respectful, having a good manner of approach and being jovial and full of humor are ways of developing and strengthening the love and feelings between the two of you.