Weekend Vibe with Priceless Treasure - Virginity without extra oil is foolishness

A lot of ladies complain that guys walk away from them simply because  they refused to give them sex. Some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys.

Let me be very blunt here. Virginity may not be the real reason the guys go away. Yes! no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it ,they walk away. The problem may not be with the virginity or the sex.The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and foolish were both virgins, the other five were not refused from seeing the bridegroom because they were virgins nor because they lost their virginity, but they were foolish because they had no EXTRA OIL.

Most ladies don’t have any EXTRA OIL to sustain any relationship. While many brag about their virginity, that is all they have to offer, they forget that virginity ends the night after the wedding, but EXTRA OIL is what will keep marriage going.

If a man ask a lady for sex she says NO, the man can actually walk away if what he really wanted was sex and also if that is all he thinks the lady can offer him. A man may not come to a lady for sex, along the line he may be tempted to ask for sex, if the lady turns him down, the man may still stay in the relationship if he sees other things that are valuable to him, but if he doesn’t, he may simply walk away.

Before you think men are walking away because you are a virgin and not ready to offer sex? Some ladies who brag about virginity are some how timid, some impolite, uncultured and aggressive. Why would a guy stay with such a lady? Some ladies do not have manners, some do not have much to offer intelligence wise.Some are not socially inclined, they are just dull and the best thing they have is their beautiful look, nice hips with backside, nice breast and nice lips.

So, when a guy comes because of all the physical shapes and wants sex, if he is turned down, he walks away because there is nothing else interesting about the lady. Most men now are even scared of marrying such virgins. Their fears prompt them to want to test before they discuss marriage because many ladies who got married as virgins have caused their husbands to be looking elsewhere because they may be too naïve on bed and have nothing else to offer in matrimony.

However, guys don’t need to test to be sure she will be good, they can guess how good a lady will be at home and on bed base on her decent conversation, by the level of knowledge acquired, by her quest/zest passion for knowledge and by God’s leading. Do not break your virginity because a guy wants to walk away, it is not all about virginity, work to build up virtue as Woman in making.

Virginity is good, but to your virginity, add knowledge, add Extra oil and read 2Pet. 1:5-7.
Virginity or no virginity...,do you have any Extra oil to sustain a relationship or your marriage? Ponder on this my ladies!!!..
Do have a lovely week ahead.

Heart Matters with Eddie - Don't judge me!

I am a guy in love with a pretty lady I met 5 years ago in Ibadan on an official assignment. The relationship has been on for almost 2years,We hope to get married within the next 6 months to 1 year. I could say we are just a normal couple (if you know what I mean) a little argument here and there, a little disagreement here and there, no one is 'perfect'  you know. Then 2 months ago I met this beautiful lady when on a training in Abuja (now don't ask me wat happens during these official assignments and why I always meet ladies) . Wow!  She is like 90% of what I look for in a woman, almost inch perfect on every side..... Physically charming, intellectually sound, spiritually gifted with a smile that can cool an erupting volcano. Hmmmmmmmmm we started just as friends oooo, nothing serious, but gradually she's winning my heart.  What should I do?  Do I continue with my relationship or should I follow the yearnings of my heart? Please don't judge me... Just advice.

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Streetwise; will there ever be Biafrexit?

If you have read a couple of literature objectively on the concept of 'Biafra', you will be confused about what your take should be on the demand of IPOB. Come to think of it Biafra is a fruit from the seed of discord sown by the British. The British in order to still be in control after independent entrusted the nation Nigeria into the hand of a major ethnic group  that will be loyal to the union jack and the crown. Hence, the British was not really ready to grant the nation Nigeria autonomy, up till date the stand of United Kingdom and her allieds has not changed.

Besides, before Biafra there ought to have been a distintegration of an entity call Nigeria because the trouble actually started from the Western Region, it was a political battle for the power at the centre that prompted Military officers most of Eastern origin to staged the first coup which was indeed bloody. This coup according to various literatures sparked up ethnic crisis in the Northern Nigeria. The inability of Aguiyi Ironsi's led Government to gain full control of the military led to another coup which was plotted by Officers of Northern region as a retaliation. This brought in a new head of States who was quite too young for the office but had the full control of the military.

Lt Col Odumegwu Ojukwu on May 30, 1967 deleared his region as Republic of Biafra, this aggravated the existing ethnic crisis between the Igbo and the Hausa/Fulani. This led to civil war that brought about lost of so many lives with the main actor living in luxury and giving orders. The war lasted for about 2years and some months. Though for the Biafra war no victor no vanquished but lives were lost out of some people thirst for power.

Since, then the agitation for Biafra has been a re- occurring event, the point is that some people out of their own interest decided to capitalize on the tribalism and ethnicity that threaten the unity of the nation to make leaders of themselves. The question is why Biafra? Biafra was not as result of marginalization because the Igbo's can not claim to have suffered marginalization in Nigeria state because they have always been duly represented in every Government after the war till date.

If Biafra is to be a reality let those clamoring for it call for a referendum across the region, let all public officers from the region speak out the mind of their people and let them convince others on the floor of National Assembly and the court.
No true independence come from the use arms and ammunitions.
God bless Nigeria.
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Bae' s Achievement - weekend vibes with Omo - oba Adeosun

Losing your virginity to impress your friends is not an achievement. .
◆Dating more than 2 guys in 2017 is not an achievement. .
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◆Sleeping over at your boyfriend’s places 1,2,3or more days is not an achievement. .
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◆Dating famous and rich guys is not an achievement. .

◆Badly drawn tattoos on your body makes you look cheap and having them is not an achievement.

◆Twerking and drinking Guarana at clubs every weekend is not an achievement. .
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◆And having a baby just to make a nigga stay with you is also not an achievement..
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◆Going to school;getting your degree, or getting yourself involve in positive things and chasing your dreams.. Now that's an achievement!! . The greatest achievement a man can achieve in life is to make others happy and love God.

Do have a nice weekend.

Love is an attitude -Heart Matters with Omo oba adeosun

Love is not just the emotional feelings you have for someone; it goes beyond that. Love is a character, behaviour or attitude. A person can fall in love with you because of your good character even if you are not handsome or beautiful. Someone can love you because you know how to cook, pamper, or because you behave well and you make the person happy.

On the other hand, bad characters can make love to fade away no matter how beautiful or good looking you are. If you have some irritating and annoying characters, it can make your spouse to start disliking you and hence the love will start diminishing, especially if you are not taking to corrections.

Therefore, don't just be good in bed alone, don't just be romantic alone, don't just be beautiful and good looking alone. You should do things that make your spouse happy; exhibit all those good characters that make your spouse happy. For example buying of gifts, being respectful, having a good manner of approach and being jovial and full of humor are ways of developing and strengthening the love and feelings between the two of you.

Monday Money - How to keep your finances in check - Wanny B

After a relaxed weekend,mondays mean we all have to get back to making money!
Your financial life started changing when you get sick and tired of being a debtor.
For years, you try to increase wealth and reduce debt profile but it has been a constant failure.My friends,life just doesnt work that way.

If you want something different you have got to do something different.
Here are few things to help you keep your finances under check.

1.No eating out-no fast food,no takeouts and no sit down restaurants.Try it and see how your overhead cost for the month will drastically reduce.How much money are you wasting on eating out that could be used to help you achieve your financial dreams?

2.Track your spending today-this help you to be accountable to yourself and helps eliminate the too common questions of "where does the money go each month"?Spend on budget avoid unnecessary panic buying! Must you do daily shopping?

3.Start an Automatic savings-call your bank today,and set up a saving allowance,either weekly,bi-weekly or monthly deposit.Treat your savings account just like a bill and watch it grow everyday.Avoid temptation not to spend recklessly.Its adviceable you create a seperate account.The amount you deposit doesnt matter but the discipline is what matters. Mind you, you are building a pool of wealth for yourself.

4.Spend on what you need only-only get things that you are really in need of,not what you see and you think its compulsory for you to have.My dear,there should be a different between your NEED/WANTS??only buy cloths if you dont have anything to wear.

5. Manage the EXTRAS in life-the extras are the magazines subscriptions,the gym membership,the energy drinks,the treats to the restaurant or cinema.Just stop!!!
Success only comes to those who are willing to step out of the world of "Normal" into the world "of doing what it takes to make it happen.

There should be a balance here,dont forget to keep in touch with loved ones or never make your family live on the street so that you can be wealthy?

What do you know about Eyo?

Did you know that Eyo was a masquerade specifically for funeral rite!

Did you know that three main Orisa that were brought to lagos were Oniko, Ologede and Adimu (Adamu Orisa)!

Did you know that Adimu was the shortest of them all!

Did you know that Orisas traditionally have a camp at Oke Ipa a village beyond ikoyi across the lagoon close to iperu!

Did you know that the ethnic to which Eyo belong has become a subject matter but it is believed that Eyo was a masquerade from Oyo with a blend from Benin passing through Ijebu but non of these ancient town can lay claim to Eyo as theirs.

Did you know that the first Eyo festival was in honor of Oba Akintoye on February 20, 1854.

Did you know that Adamu orisa play can only be staged on the Island of central Lagos.

Did you that no Orisa will cross the lagoon with his face covered.