Spouse Market; The new grading System, Prayer as yardstick.

Some weeks ago the General Overseer of the Redeemed Church of God Pastor E. A Adeboye issued a new grading system to be adopted by young ministers preparing for marriage. This came at the same time with National University Commission scrapping post UTME and as well instructing all Universities to give students admission base on grading system. While the Universities came up with various grading system the grading system issued by the man of God generated some controversy.

The man of God position on what should be the male requirement in a female generated a bit of controversy. "If she can not pray for one hour, don't marry her". Trust Nigerians the bill becomes a law without proper reading in as much that it is proposed by the Man of God. Here are some salient questions to ask the man that is adopting this rule. Can he also pray for two hours? after all he is expected to be the head of the family. What his is definition of Prayer? there is a difference between going to church and praying; they are aren't the same thing. Prayer is of various form, we are all use to praying aloud but people who do meditate pray for hours than those who even pray aloud. Mind you Jesus Christ encouraged meditational prayer as the best. So Mr. Man for you to adjudged her base on this rule, you need to state what you believe to be prayer. Praying aloud or Meditating?

Most girls will be disqualified base on this rule because truth be told 60% of today's girls can't really pray that is why they fall prey to desperate men of God. They become victims of devilish prophesy and object of pleasure in the name of God said I should tell you this. However, a few don't pray as in what you will call prayer session but they are experts in spontaneous prayer blessing themselves every now and then. So, brother will you rule out such Madam on this?

Prayer without good works is nothing so says St. James, Yes she is prayer warrior but she doesn't have the prayer attitude. Her way of life does not radiate a communication with God. She prays, fine but what will you do if her way of life question her prayers. Let us face it she claim to be a prayer warrior but she has different spiritual fathers from different denominations at the same time. Isn't that a prayer warrior without faith? She claims to pray but the attitude is base on hypocrisy. Here is she top on your list?

Lastly, I feel God is the only one who could decide who really pray even the holy bible buttress the fact we could claim to pray to God while our heart are far away. I have not really kicked against what the man of God said but I will say take caution and let the Holy spirit guide you. Mind you if she doesn't know how to pray teach her how to pray.
.shalom

.angel 

What could have made her run...?

Bride just discovered on wedding morning that her husband-to - be was actually not A CHEVRON STAFF.
Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Badoo etc all said he was a Chevron staff , but the truth was revealed this morning..
Na wooooooo ohhhh!'
See gobe

Seriously Speaking no one would have believed that a wedding gown could serve the purpose of a track suit neither could one guess a bride could suddenly turn an unrecognized Olympic gold medalist. As the popular saying goes for a race to take place is either you are pursuing something or something is pursuing you. This madam ran off when she found out that the potential husband wasn't a Chevron Staff as claimed by his social media account. Will you say that is a enough reason to abandon the Marital vow to be taken or She has a better option still available somewhere probably a Conoil Staff.
She took off the heel an action which can be adjudged to be the best in the face of difficult alternative to practical. The point that she ran off is never questionable but what prompted the running is rhetorical in nature. Is it the deception? or the reality of poverty? All I can say to her is welcome back to the spouse market just know that single act will bring about depreciation in your price's share in the market but it is better than been bought off is a shady deal so please do shine your eye.
.angel

Girls will be like;Please Who Lover boy help?

I am about to start my Music career Please do permit me to do a copyright without recognizing the original owner of the work after all budget padding is no crime why should plagiarism be? Besides, I  will follow the pattern of Melania Trump so the original owner should not fret it is a matter of who the lover boy help. Some days ago Pastor E. A Adeboye advised Males not to marry Females who can't pray for one hours and as well the females that can't cook. That advice will go a long way in affecting transactions at the ever volatile spouse market. The spouse's market situation report is story for another day.

I heard some guys are now fond of playing Romeo it is time to ask them. Who lover boy help?
You love a girl instead of you to walk to her and tender your proposal you are busy acting out Mill to boon updating your vocab app trying to build up some swag to match with your "alanta" style of walking yet you look unkempt and untidy. Then you feel no shouldn't be an answer for you? Please who lover boy help?

Mr Goodlooking, fine boy looking sexy you are good at sending text messages, pinging to show love is your hobby. To write a page of write-up is an issue but you are gifted with copying love text messages from a book or other people's chats then you accused Melania trump of plagiarism. when your mates are sending recharge you are busy doing "hi bae" Please who lover boy help on top of an hire purchased android phone.

Mr Romantic always going to the garden of eden to pluck flowers from hibiscus to rose, from rose to allamanda. You should have been an horticulturist. Why flowers when there is Shawarma, Suya, Hamburger, Bread and Akara and even biscuit. Excuse me who lover boy help with his flower?

Don't get carried away yet I can see you are feeling my song.
To be continued
.angel
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The Mungu Representing the Maagas....

You wonder why our lawmakers have been performing below expectation? It is just the case of mugun and magaas who do not know what to expect from each other. They result to taking the Maagas (Electorates) for a ride. Hence, it becomes a jolly ride for him over the ignorance of the maagas. The Mungu is always a political opportunist who often hide behind the his excellency to contest he comes to re-echo the song his sponsors promising good roads, free education, free pipe borne water and whatever the Governor or president says. Though, he might be ignorance of what a bill is or who a lawmaker is? He wouldn't want to annoy the Maagas either because anything bill remind them of NEPA or PHCN who bill them for the service never rendered. Telling them that he will make law to the maaga's advantage is a waste of time because they are confuse with the concept of law making and law enforcement.

When the Mungu eventually win the election he either becomes an area father sponsoring street jamz and carnival or become a busy honourable who doesn't have the time for the maaga's excesses as a beggar but he would have noted that he wouldn't be returning as mugun's representative. Coming to the house where the maagas expected the mungu to make laws to their own advantage. The mungu who know fully well that the maagas are not really sure of what he should do on their behalf in the house then decides to do what he likes. He may choose sleeping in the house as a hobby  then get fatter day after day and indication that all is going well for him. He may choose to be "sit down look" I concur mugun with this action he might not return as the maagaa's representative only if he knows his way.

When the mugun goes to the house and cause trouble the maagas like him for that because that is their expectation about been in the house. Irrespective of whether his stand to issue is relevant or not as long he is cause trouble in there the maaga feel adequately represented. In case he is a trouble shooter who is so fluent in our lingua franca then he will have problem with the maagas. They will come with this notion that" naa English he sabi speak" Our Man Hon.Patrick Obahiagbon, is a critical sample.

The muguns are never in touch with the maagas on the sensitive issues most especially the on issues that bother on the maaga's welfare and well being that is why budget padding is crucial for mungus co-existence.

In case the maagas challenge them to it at that moment they will recall and understand their primary duty of lawmaking.

.angel
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An Average Nigerian Lawmaker ;the mungu with the Maagas

Democracy is adjudged to be the best form of government because it allows people's participation though people don't get to participate directly every time. The populace then employ the service of some elected officials to be their representatives. In fact all public office holders under a democratic system are employees to the electorates. The Lawmakers are more of direct employees and their main function is to represent our mind and ensure our common position become law if the need. These people are our hope in democracy as our government.

In the last sixteen years of our uninterrupted democratic dispensation we as a people has condemned and rebuked the Executive arm of Government and the Judiciary with passion. While we stylishly ignore the Lawmakers. An average candidate aspiring to be a lawmaker stay within our neighborhood prior to his election portraying him/herself as a promising ambassador. We get carried away and we vote and after his/her emergence. He/she does not remember to come back to say thank us he/she gets a colourful banner to do the appreciation to us with a little cash for jobless youth to do street jamz.

Once sworn-in he/she will start representing us from G.R.A because it is safer and more conducive for his new portfolio so that we don't feel he has ran away he opens for us an abode call constituency office. When he/she get to the House of Assembly to do the business why we elected him he has numerous options of what to do with our votes. He can choose to be a "Jonah" or better still "I support the motion" representative in as much that he is contended with the sitting and all necessary allowance. He could choose to be greedy and get interested in the race for power at floor of the house using our tribal identity to promote himself.

Two years while in office he remembers that he need to be our representative forever so he comes back like a prodigal son but this time to share goodies for us from the constituency allowance he suddenly realized he has been collecting. So, he comes to dig borehole for us because he found out that we are thirsty. He gets us a transformer too to help make electricity stable for the next six month. The little good will make us forget whatever grievances he have had. We begin to remember that his name has title call "Honorable" or "Senator". We start to envision Chairman local government or Governor in him.

He continues to fool us like that with sweet talks that being our Representative is not easy we can't understand what he is going through our forsake. He will claim to be our political savior who is strictly sent to the our lost community. If you then ask him about Laws and bills the purpose of which we elected him then you are about to hear stories that touch the heart.

Well, I am glad to inform you that he/she is Mungu and we are the Maaga.

To be continued
.angel
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The Counselling Unit Call....Social Media.

Welcome to the counselling unit call social media where we do counselling mainly on relationship and marriage. Please note that this unit is feminine focus though with less attention on men that we perceived responsible. At this unit you are expected to only tell us your problem please take into cognizance that we aren't interested in knowing the cause of this problem so we are only interested in providing you solutions.
In stating your problem try not to be emotional because often time we end up insulting the emotional people for not being strong! Invariably we may end up not giving you any advice at all. In case you are a wordy person you will have problem with us because we don't like entertaining counselee whose problem is in form of a Paul's Epistle in fact you will not get our attention.
To get our attention please put a bit of fable in your problem not those once that we are use to in nollywood we do like those ones that is from Korean love movie or Hollywood. Please note that to attend to your problem when you update it as status you will either need a semi nude picture or a rhetoric  picture with a caption that will read "Like or type Amen".
When our attention is now yours please in the course of our advice do not comment leave us to begin an argument on your problem. Don't thank nor like any comment mute your update while we continue. If you are lucky you may have sages attend to you with good counsels but they will leave you unceremoniously too. You may be fortunate to also have fools playing sages counselling you then learn to stomach the non sense too. I will not forget the passerby counselors they will like your problems, some may be nice enough  to comment "just passing"
After, we are all through we will eventually leave the ball in your court with the notion that you have your life to live. Haven't we done you a favor. I guess we have.
.angel

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