Your Love must have a Story!

 One of the problem of modern union and the reason why it break within a period of time is the issue of " Love without story". Recently, the Pastor E. A Adeboye was in the news again with his advice to young adult, the Man of God said " If you get a wife through a facebook, you will loose it through YouTube". The members of the unrecognized group of social - media boyfriends and girlfriends association of Nigeria are currently staging an online protest against this assertion. Truth be told the wife you get from facebook; you loose via instagram not necessarily You Tube because Facebook love may not have a story to sustain the marriage.

While in the four wall of higher Institution " Love " is a compulsory course to do, the imaginary faculty of love in the higher institution offers you various courses. Consequently, the courses go hand in hand with the reason why you are in the citadel of learning " Academics". You could choose to study principle and practices of love with hope to marry at graduation? Some lost out Academically but got married the focus love birds have marriage and graduation to their credit. You could choose to do principle and practices of love just to fill- in the gap or established a kind of symbiotic relationship to experiment human sexuality? Aaye n serue. You could choose to ignore love as a faculty and do away with all it courses.No crime in that just hope that situation of life will not give you reasons to bite your fingers that you never did.

Love from higher Institution that eventually lead marriage is indeed a love with a story. This is love that would have face challenges that bother on trust and fidelity. The love that would have gone through the water of selflessness in terms of giving and possessiveness in terms of love. The love that would have been threatened with doubt and fear of being betrayed. The love that teaches you what to expect in marriage. The love that give you the room to obtain a licenses for self- expression without being abused

No doubt Social media could really enhance communication of love birds but our love lives must have a sense of reality. Don't be a victim of deception becoming a facebook wife/ whatsapp husband, set out and lay a concrete foundation for your love life towards happiness together till death do you part.

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