Tutorial! Relationship 419; Head not Heart Mechanism

Warning!
This article is rated 18+ not because of the explicit content you expect, It is not suitable for minor, it contain strong advice which we will end up changing your notion and put your in a situation to re-weigh your marital status. So, this article is mainly for singles who are ready to mingle, Married persons are advised to read this article at their own risk.

Traditionally, all guys are cheat and they make use of 'head mechanism' in relationship, guys don't go into relationship to compliment the other person just like that? They go in with the notion that someone must come along to compliment their being. Hence, no guy will go into relationship with any girl without a definite purpose. The purpose varies base on the man's disposition at that time, a change in his disposition will bring about a need for another girl irrespective of how complementary the autonomous girl in question has been to him. Hence, Man is polygamous by nature and this is a function of time! All girls are taught to be good because they are made to believe that they are made to complement the masculine being. So, they live with the notion, " I am made a lieutenant" so they live with that notion at times they are fortunate and often time they get ridiculed and suffer heartbreak or have to live with an incompetent boss.

Today things has changed information is everywhere, people have been in pain over the concept love and relationship. So, the traditional "Male use head mechanism" no longer hit the female folks while the Male folks are no longer carried away with "Female use heart mechanism" because  in a long run most of it are borne out of deceit. What is in vogue now is "Head not Heart Mechanism"!
To use this mechanism there are some assumptions base this theory.

1. Love exists though it comes with one motive or the other "so no point in loving out rightly".
2. I can equally do the same mindset "so no big deal cheating".
3. I have my life to live so no room to accommodate the other person's personality (Domineering).
4. If this drama end in the marriage fine if it does; no big deal and if it does not there will always be an exit.
5. Third parties consent is a determining factor after all he/she need to be really scrutinized.

Base on this assumptions Singles mingle if you are still using the traditional mechanism you are as good as Black Berry Bold 5 then you will soon become victims of circumstance by the time you can no longer "whatsapp" I mean communicate. You would have become a serial heart breaker as a male or serial heart break casualty as a female. If you are already married base on the traditional mechanism your family need to be fortified with prayer and you must try to adjust to the dynamism of family lives in our world.

If you are in vogue and you belief in "Use head not heart mechanism" I am glad to tell you that you are too wise to be in relationship and it takes two fools to get married that is why you may have to be a sample in a spouse market till you change your brand. If you are lucky to have gotten married, Congratulations! You will soon find out that you just a bearer of title not living out a Status.
Incase you are wondering what my submission is then you need to learn about Relationship Management; Use your head and heart mechanism see you in the next class for 410 tutorial.
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If Christ isn't the King of the Universe....then who could have been?

Christ is the king of the Universe! I don't have time for a debate it does not take a debate to establish a fact go ask Hillary Clinton! Other religion will definitely come with their beliefs and doctrines to prove me wrong. They will definitely come from the basis of who Christ is and with various argument to nullify my claim. Candidly, I don't have the muscle to put up a defense but I am convince about his reign as a Universal king.
 
He was a simple man that lived on earth about 2000 years ago. His words and actions are still relevant up till day. He never took to violence as a mean to an end rather he submitted to violence to prove that love answered all questions.

His principles about of life make up what we know as the ideals. His name is the most popular base on it efficacy. He lives to day... He lives forever
Hail Christ the king of the Universe.....
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World Tolerance Day! Who intolerance epp?

When you see people dey paara and you dey feel like wetin? One of the wahala wey we get for this part of the world naa intolerance. Upon say today naa "World tolerance day" people for this side of the world no dey do that kind birthday. Oyinbo people take one thing senior us that is "tolerance". Oyinbo people no go get wahala with you if your life style no threaten him physically or emotionally. In case your lifestyle threaten him just get ready because he will soon call 911 or 119. Oyinbo people sabi the thing to tolerate but we no sabi what to tolerate because the place where an African man suppose fight naa there him go they form padi padi.

Enemies for this part of the world naa normal thing and the reason be say we no dey tolerate one another. Even if you tolerate some people dey no go tolerate you for the person wey you be. It be like say we don forget say we dey different as human beings, so we no fit behave the same way. So, when people behave some how no make enemies of them try use brain to correct them and no use by fire by force because everybody don know fundamental human right. Some people them be actor dey no dey die for film that one no talk say make you come blacklist them as enemies of the state. You use brain to learn how to manage them for who them be because once human being don reach or pass teenage to change go dey hard naa the psycho people talk am no be.

Person wey get time tolerate people for who them be in this life go go far for this life while people wey no get time to tolerate people won't get to places meant for them. Those people wey you no tolerate naa them be sure way to the peak of your destiny. If you tolerate people for won't them be most of them go want tolerate except for the few once wey get brain touch even those one too when they become normal they see you as their oga at the top.

Did I hear  you say Tolerance for where? Make I come dey get headache abi? Naa you want give your self headache o. If one person attitude dey give you headache you have so many options instead of cutting the person head. You go correct the person politely and make the person see wetin you dey see wey no good. Some of us too no get that kind patience, naa the reason why we dey get headache be that. In case you don tell the person he come dey form voltron, as long say the thing no threaten you life and make you uncomfortable. If it does no kill yourself shift direction but keep focus. If the thing no threaten you it is time to start watching the fellow as Africa Magic.

.angel

Vox populi; Vox Deus! So, the Winner is Trump!

It is no more news that the winner of 2016 American Election is the controversial candidate Donald Trump. The election's result happen to be one of the biggest surprises of the year 2016. Analyst worldwide were envisaging a possible victory of another female president. The fact that Hillary Clinton was qualified for the post more than her male counterparts made the world thought she was the best of all the available choices.

Donald Trump on the other hand  was not that a better choice from the technocrat's perspective  because he lacks the experience required for the office and even his utterances during the campaign was a not really civil as you would have expected from a candidate contesting for an office. During the debates he did not match up to Hillary's confidence and intelligence so on paper one could not but give it to Hillary Clinton.

Though, one wouldn't rule out the dynamism of election irrespective of who is contesting, humanly speaking you can not be certain of an election's result until a winner is declared. The fact that human beings are unpredictable make election's result a probability of X or Y. Any which way, the result of election is always a case of vox populi; vox deus! Even if the "populi" is made up a set of cabals whose primary duty is imposition ;only time do tell but winner must emerge!

The way God manifest is never the way man thinks. The two candidate happened to be Christians and they are aspired to lead the acclaimed of God's own country. Hillary believes that Christian values should not be forced on people while Trump believes that if Christian values will be forced on people so be it. Hillary is of the opinion that people should be accommodated irrespective of their disposition towards one while Trump is of the opinion that only people who have good disposition towards one should be accommodated.what a diverse opinions!

The simple majority went with Hillary while the winning majority went with Trump. Then I ask where do God's stand here? I found a response in this quote

"God does not call the qualified but he qualifies his call"
.angel