Heart Matters with Wanny B - Four fallacies that will keep your love life out of point!

After a long break, today I will talk about the ideas that  lovers can embrace to neutralize the progress of their relationship.

1. Believe that love doesn't need to be studied! Many today struggle with their love lives because they are "illiterates". Many Want to be successful in love but haven't taken their time to read even a single book on the subject matter. There is a saying that someone somewhere has faced the same challenges that you 're facing, I have faced it and you reading this, all that needs to be done is to learn from others.


2.Believe that your relationship needs no counsel! Often we are warned of the damages permitting a third party in our relationship. This idea has made people isolate their relationship from people who can legitimately help them to their own disadvantage. You shouldn't be so scared of the ideas a third party will give u, but you should be afraid of the idea of a negative and unqualified third party.


3. Trust and hard work! Most struggling couples are lazy. Love is Trust, love requires hard work not just for fun. The fun of love is actually a product of tireless and consistent hard work. So when you claim to be in love, just know that you must be disciplined enough to back up your words. True love will require trust, hard work and all manners of values.


4. Believe that fallen in love is dangerous! Do have a mindset that to be in love is the best way to be happy and so shall it be!

Heart Matters with Wanny B - HOW TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

Marriage is an institution you attend but do not graduate.Its a lifetime union between your spouse and yourself.For every couples of today,falling in love and saying 'I DO' is the easiest part but living happily is the real task.I sought out advice from real people who might have insight as to what makes a marriage successful?and asked them a burning question "what is the secret of a successful marriage???now read the wisdom they shared.



DON'T HIDE ANYTHING FROM EACH OTHER-share your thoughts and feelings together.Remember  communication is an essential tool in marriage.

DON'T LET YOUR PAST AFFECT YOUR PRESENT MARRIAGE-past could be dangerous.Whatever has happened has gone,remember old things have passed away.

DON'T TAKE EACH OTHER FOR GRANTED-successful marriage do not just happen,they must be developed.Have respect for each other.

CREATE TIME FOR YOURSELF-have time for yourself.Do what will make your partner happy.

AVOID GIVING THE SILENT TREATMENT-don't let your emotions build you up because you'll likely explode.Talk about things that bother you,don't maintain 'grave yard" silent.


LET GO OF HURTS EASILY!

BE NICE-treat your partner with kindness.

DON'T CHEATS-this break marriage, its hurt you in a long run,stay loyal!

DON'T RUN FROM YOUR MISTAKES-accept your mistakes and apologize immediately.

MARRY Someone you like killing your time with.

SPEAK about date nights,go out and have fun.

SURPRISE each other like you used to do when dating.

APPRECIATE your spouse.

MAKE each other laugh.

TRUST and be worthy.



TRY to always remember why you fell in love with your spouse whether their sense of humor or ambition.

SAY I love you'and tell your partner they look attractive.

APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE before its becomes what you had.Marriage at times can be fragile and need to be taken care of so pay utmost attention it is your life.

PATIENCE-patience holds a vital key to every successful marriage.

Money Matters with angel - For your Business let "Going concern" be your priority!

One of the problems of most Africans is that we love to live out our riches in time. A typical African man want to flaunt what he owns and psychologically intend to oppress his neighbors. He want to tell the world that he owns it all without serious thought on sustaining his wealth for the generation yet to come.



Here we live our lives based on social current status and position. Simplicity is an odd thing for an African man the moment he has more than what he and his family could eat, he takes to the lifestyle of a celebrity. An African man only thought of leaving legacy for his children and rarely thought of his children sustaining his legacy.

There is a need to change our notion and thought pattern, we need to start thinking of how to sustain the financial legacy we chose to leave behind. Most foreign multinational companies survived generations most of our own indigenous companies hardly survive the first generation. The problem is that most of our entrepreneurs do not have" Going concern" as an objective for their business.

Some of the beneficiaries of financial legacy do not always see reason for such fortune to be nurtured through generations.

So, for all business owners, self employed and entrepreneurs, let  "Going concern" be your priority in this 2018! Won't it be a nice thing to have your name survive generations courtesy of your sweat on today's business.

                                                            Happy Birthday to

Oluwa Nife Mi aka Wanny B wishing you many more years in good health of mind and body....

                                                          Hip! Hip! Hurray!

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Streetwise with angel - Drive the change for a better Nigeria this 2018!

When will things take shape in this country? Wouldn't it be unpatriotic to loose faith in the nation and cease praying for her? When will the deception be over and the insincerity in leadership become things of the past. Oh! when will the followers forget their suffering, ditch the crumbs we are been given and demand for our right as a people. When are we going to have the revolution of the mind????

Nigeria is indeed a land of drama with various episode that will interest you. Sometimes, as citizens we have no course to smile but the kind of jokes and suspense feature in our National life will make you have a good laugh. Imagine a nation such as ours still have to import refined products that we are naturally endowed with their crude. So, sad that we have to rely on some other countries to survive. Over the years successful Governments have promised to revive our Refinery and licenses were also issued to interested investors. How come we are still here?

Trust Nigerians there will always be a side attraction while we groan on the hardship caused by fuel scarcity, Hijab became an issue again! A law school graduand was not called to Bar because she chose to replace her wig with Hijab. This generated a debate for and against, the debate did not last long because the system in our public office upgraded from "ghost workers" to "ghost committee members. While we laugh at the scenario, it is a picture of insincerity in our leadership and our ability to compromise ethics as a people.

Our men of God are not left out of the various series, right now they are prophesying into 2019 while we have just started the year 2018. The Catholic Church is currently in pain over the kidnapped of some her Nuns and the attack on one of her Church in the North Central. Still waiting for the Government and CAN's reaction to this unfortunate development. It seems it is a Nigerian Catholic Church problem not a threat to lives and security.

As a nation our approach to issues that threaten our existence have not been proactive. Due to corruption, favoritism and nepotism it is gradually becoming a crime to tackle issue head on in this country. Yet we keep fooling ourselves with a notion that 'One day e go better!' 


Any way, any how we have to survive let the change begin with you this new year.....Drive the change for a better Nigeria this new year.

angel

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Streetwise with angel - Daddy Freeze....It is not really about collecting tithe!

Tithe has suddenly become an issue on social media courtesy of Daddy freeze of on air/ online evangelical ministry. Daddy freeze started his argument from the premises that men of God are feeding on the flocks they ought to be tendering well it seems he is right. Though defending his argument with an accusation that they are all living big, well, that is also some how true. Then one is tempted to agree with him after reflecting what Jesus Christ himself said in Luke 9:58

"Foxes have dens and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay his head."

The Bible never recorded Jesus Christ to have collected tithe despite the fact that he paid taxes.

However, Tithing was an age long tradition in Judaism going by the Story of Abraham and the king of Salem Melchizedek in Gen 14: 17 - 20. So many patriarchs did follow the foot step of Abraham. Then come Malachi 3: 9 -10

9"You are cursed with a curse, for you are robbing Me, the whole nation of you! 10"Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in My house, and test Me now in this," says the LORD of hosts, "if I will not open for you the windows of heaven and pour out for you a blessing until it overflows. 11"Then I will rebuke the devourer for you, so that it will not destroy the fruits of the ground; nor will your vine in the field cast its grapes," says the LORD of hosts.

However, most Pentecostal Pastors dwell more on the New testament how come that on the issue of tithe the reference is on the old testament. Jesus Christ never mentioned tithing but he said something about generosity to men of God in Matthew 10:40-42

"He who receives you receives Me, and he who receives Me receives the One who sent Me. 41Whoever receives a prophet because he is a prophet will receive a prophet’s reward, and whoever receives a righteous man because he is a righteous man will receive a righteous man’s reward. 42And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones because he is My disciple, truly I tell you, he will never lose his reward.

The tone of Christ on this issue is never by compulsion rather he admonished us. Hence, let us look at those who were generous to Jesus Christ. The family of Lazarus witnessed one of the greatest miracle because at a time they did host Christ. Peter's Mother in-law was healed courtesy of Christ's visit to his abode. The woman who wiped Christ's feet with his hair received blessing. Salvation entered the house of Zacheeous. Christ in his various teachings call us to be generous not only to his Apostles and disciples but to everyone as a good Samaritan.

What must our men of God do with the gifts, offering and tithes is a question Daddy freeze should be asking not telling Christians not to be generous to Men of God.

.angel

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