The female folks are very simple but complicated beings, an attempt to satisfy them will make your life a complicated issue. "What women want" has been a question on the lips of men from the time immemorial. The question over time has become an unresolved riddle with three proposed options as the answer. The options include money, sex and power, no doubt nothing attract women to a man like those three factors but non of those three factors can singlehandedly keep a woman solely for a man.
There have been a lot of thoughts over those three proposed answer to what women actually want. The response from the females folks revolves round those factors that is ;Money, Sex and power with various exception based on individual differences. However, a submission from an air opinion poll from a radio program identify "Security" as what women want. The word "Security" implies a lot of things that still revolves round the same three initial options.
Just early in the morning off to work, I board a tricycle and chose to sit at owner's corner as a typical African man, just few seconds later a woman with two kids came in. She pleaded me to "shift", she actually wanted to sit where I was sitting because she wouldn't get to the bus stop before alighting. I was in my gentleman cloak so I granted her request without hesitation. Just before we took off she was telling the rider that she was actually paying for herself only because she had no money yet she had a =N=250 change to collect. So, I was wondering how she intended to sit with her two kids on a single seat she paid for. We were joined by other two passenger then we were set for the ride. The woman chose to carry her two kids on her lap there by putting the older one at the risk of tricycle on motion without a door. Having learnt inertial in my elementary physics class, I couldn't sit back and watch the girl become a casualty of circumstance should incase of any friction. I chose to offer a help carrying one of the kids the boy to be precise on my lap so that she can carry her daughter comfortably. She was very generous with her "thank you" this time. Then the rider issued a riot act " No change o", unfortunately he was talking to me because I had =N=1000 on me. I told him my predicament, he was not ready to listen the response was " oga come down". I was actually trying to alight when the woman told the rider, let us go I will pay his transport fare. This time her generosity baffled me because she once complained that she had no money that is why she decided to risk her daughter's life subconsciously?
The scenario confirmed to me that what a woman actually want is "Security" with money, power and sex embedded in it. The fact that I said I had =N=1000 convinced her to pay for me, all women want that man that can offer more than what they can offer in terms of financial resources not necessarily because they want to enjoy the money, they just need that security of money . Most women don't like to be in the center of power due to complex but they like to secure that seat where they can influence anything anytime they wish to. Mind you they want to be the only one who has that influence on that man. Masculine gender to most women on its own connotes security that is why they are always busy looking for a tall guy with a broad shoulder and six pack.
So, what women want is " Security" in terms of money, sex and power.
Well let me say congratulation to the baby bae..... Treasure it is not easy to be a second degree holder, my dream for you is to be a bae....and of course Professor in English Literature.
Do have a nice weekend.
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